Who can be buried in a Catholic cemetery?
Catholic cemeteries are generally for the burial of Catholics because the Catholic burial place implies a sharing of common belief and the same community of faith. Therefore, the purchaser of the lot must be Catholic. The archdiocesan cemeteries welcome non-Catholic family members as well. The Church believes that those who were together in life should not be separated in death.
What should I do when there is a death in my family?
If you already own a cemetery lot, and your loved one’s wishes are known, contact the priest from the person’s parish for prayers and for the consolation of those who are gathered in the presence of the departed. You will also need to contact your local funeral director. The funeral director will make arrangements on your behalf with the cemetery. If you do not have a lot, you will have to visit the cemetery to select a lot for the burial.
Can I purchase a burial lot before a death occurs?
Yes. Because the time of death is often traumatic, with emotional and financial strain, it is advisable to select a burial lot in advance. Thoughtful planning and financial prudence will help avoid hasty selections made at the time of need. The Pre-need Counseling Service of the Catholic Cemeteries Office can help you make prudent decisions without pressure. All lots and crypts must be paid in full before burial or entombment can occur.
Does the Church allow cremation?
Cremation is acceptable, although the Church prefers burial of the body. When cremation is chosen, burial of the ashes in a suitable container is required, as they are human remains which should have reverent disposition. They may be buried in an existing family plot, or in graves and niches.
What types of decorations are permitted on grave sites?
Cemetery staff are responsible for the maintenance of the grounds of the cemetery, including grass cutting, planting, and repair of the landscape. Therefore, only temporary displays (fresh flowers, artificial flowers, potted plants) may be placed next to a monument or marker. Nothing can be planted, dug into the ground, or placed as an addition to a monument. Cemetery staff remove temporary displays regularly, according to posted notices.